Pamper each other: Now people, I can't tell you how far it goes with a person to take a bath with them, or run a bubble bath with candles and bring her them a nice glass of wine. When your partner gets out of the bath brush their hair for them, rub or massage their back and follow it off with some very dirty rubbing that leads to whatever you want. Or skip the bath and treat one another to a full body massage.

Games: Play games with each other! This can be anything from a sex game that you have picked up, but if you don't want to spend the cash on a new game, play any old board game you have in the house already. My partner and I like to play dirty scrabble where every word has to be sex related it's funny and sexual and always gets us in the mood - I know it sounds nerdy but use your imagination a little bit!

Dance: Turn out the lights and slow dance to some sexy music. Or better yet turn on something with a beat and give your partner a very sexy strip tease! That will surely heat things up and always gets the ball rollin!

Photo Session: When's the last time you took some sexy pictures for or of your partner? I love getting all dolled up and in a hot outfit including some sexy shoes and of course I always have a drink just to loosen my inhibitions. By about the fourth picture, I'm about ready to play with myself right then and there, and what a great gift for your partner! If all goes well you won't be finishing your photo session.

Go for a Stroll: Go for a nice walk with each other after the sun has already set, hold hands and talk about hot sex sessions that you stick out in your mind, and if one doesn't - than make one by finding a place off the main trail and getting it on. If you don't feel comfy having sex just make out like your teenagers again!

Letter or Cards: Write your lover a sexy story or card, it's nice because it can be very spontaneous and you can leave it for them to find in their car on the way to work or even send them a naughty e-card to their personal email address if they check it at work. Browse our naughty greeting cards here: www.kinkycards.com.

Tie them up: Has your partner been bad lately? How about handcuffing them with some rope, neck tie, or some old sheets? You can blindfold with almost anything that you have already lying around your house like a scarf, hand towel, tshirt or anything really.

Cook a meal: Cook a meal and act out the scene to 9 1/2 weeks! Blindfold your partner and have a wide assortment of things for them to taste and sample, and then make them guess what you are feeding them. It can be very erotic and a great way to tease the senses.

Good Vibrations: Don't have a vibrator but want to feel like you do? Turn the drier on and go have sex on it. If you've never done this - just DO IT. It can be pretty hot and it's a good position to rock her world and If you have a back massager that can come in very handy as well.

Candles: Most people have candles around the house; they are a perfect way to create a very romantic and sexual atmosphere on the cheap. You can light all of them and set them in misc places around the living room, bedroom, even bathroom and turn out all the lights. Everything seems to just get sexier I'm tellin ya!

Just remember whatever you decide to do; the most important thing is using your imagination. Women and men alike aren't all about spending money to woo the person on a daily person. It's more about the little things, the thoughts, and the attention that is given when doing something special or making someone feel sexy. And if you just want to spend some of that cash you received don't forget to take advantage of some of our great deals going on at www.adulttoychest.com to shop for some new toys, lingerie, DVDs, lubes, or anything else your little sexy parts desire!

Talk to ya next week.

XOXO
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