Oh the fun we can have with Backyard Games! Strictly adult fun, this topic is not a new one by any means but it's always loved and rouses many curiosities along the way. I am sure there are plenty of you out there that have just recently started dabbling in it, or testing the water temperature for the first time as well as the experienced. So today I just wanted to talk about some fun you can have with your backyard area!

First things first.... Remember "Anal Play" doesn't always have to be penetration of the anal area with a cock or large toy; It can also consist of small bullets being used, fingers, tongues or other like things. Whether you are female or male and you are new to anal adventures remember to take a nice hot bath and gentle soap to get the area nice and clean for your sake and your partners, this is necessary for several reasons - keeping the area sanitary as well as providing a clean environment for your partner which will make them a lot more in to the act. Many experienced with "Anal Play" love the feeling and cleanliness that an Anal Douche provides. They are safe and simple to use!

Now if your issue is that you have the desire to try anal sex but can't seem to find a good position you can try a few things. Many people have trouble getting the anal area to relax. You can attempt a small amount of massage to this area - I know it sounds funny but it can help relax your body. A lot of people tense up as soon as something is placed at the entrance, which causes insertion to be more difficult than it really is. To massage simply get a small amount of lube - it can help to find one that is desensitizing if you prefer to add a little numbness to the area and help with relaxation, and than simple insert a lubricated finger inside the anus and gently rub for a few minutes, you will notice your body relaxing after a few minutes - especially if you do this while pleasuring another part of the body at the same time - the cock or clit at the same time!

Another way you can achieve a better position is with a pillow. I like the Little Deeper Cushion because it is tilted, you can position your partner on that and it angles them up giving you great access to the anal area. A great backyard game I like to have done to me and to give to others is warming up with your tongue. Start with teasing circles and as your partner gets more and more turned on, burry your whole face in the area and feel yourself or see your partner die with pleasure!!

One major tip I have is not to allow your partner to achieve orgasm quite yet! Unless they are known to have orgasm after orgasm and get more and more turned on! I like to hold out the orgasm because for some reason it seems to help with the anal penetration when it's time!

So back to the tongue bath you are giving your partner...once they are relaxed and enjoying the great sensations of tongue play start using your finger. Make sure to use lots of lubricant - again I can't emphasize how important this is in the anal area! Nothing worse than a dry ass and a dry finger ha ha! It can kill the mood completely!!

Now if your partner is truly enjoying themselves. Add some toys to the mix. I highly recommend Anal Beads and even better vibrating anal toys which create a great sensation down there and allow you to relax a bit more. If you are a beginner I would say to keep the toys on the thinner side which will allow your partner to get used to the idea of having something inside them before just taking the plunge with something larger. Width seems to be the hardest thing for a lot of people regarding anal pleasure.

Once you have the toy of their choice picked out start working the oral pleasure combined with the anal pleasure and this is a sure fire way to loosen things up. And I bet you the next time you want to try a little more anal play your partner will be more than eager and you can work up to larger things.

Happy Backyard Games Week! Email me at Toymistress@AdultToyChest.com for suggestions, questions, or toy ideas anytime!

Spank XOXO,
Toymistress